“Our destinies do not work together” – Dancer Kaffy speaks on separation with husband


Well known Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Shafau (Kaffy), has reacted to the separation rumours from her husband, Joseph Ameh.

Kaffy said, they have to go their separate ways because her own destiny and that of her husband does not work together.

The dancer made this known in a video on her Instagram page as a snippet of her latest podcast.

She said, “Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them. And mine didn’t really work out that way.

“Rather than looking at somebody as the problem, sometimes you could be the problem of that person.

“Being an enabler of someone not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you’re not supposed to be in that space.

“So there was a lot to learn and there’s still a lot more to learn.”

In the video shared, she opined that being separated should not be the end of life for them.

“Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be,”

Kaffy got married to her husband, Joseph Ameh, the former drummer of  P-Square and they have two children together.

By Damilola Olufemi