“Been married for 12 years, I have never cheated on my wife” – South African man reveals


A South Africa man, identified as Bakhe Dlamini, has said he has never cheated on his wife in their twelve years of marriage.

The marriage counselor, in a post shared on his Facebook page, said he prays he doesn’t fall into temptation and cheat on his wife because he knows the consequences of infidelity on a marriage.

Speaking to married couples who are affected by cheating, he said there’s hope for them if they are willing to make their marriage work.

“Been married 12 years, have never cheated on my wife. I pray it stays that way, because I know the effects of cheating. On a daily basis I attend to couples that have been impacted adversely by cheating,”

“The consequences are dire. It takes a lot to build or restore trust after cheating. To those who’ve been affected by cheating, if you both committed to your marriage, the cheating party is truly remorseful and has changed, I want you to know that there’s hope for you. Healing may take place daily, you may still have unhealed wounds. A day at a time, things will get better.”